In this senario you can alternate names life styles..
OBE = Out of Balance Experience
OBE was a dumped Lover. His Lover had been unable to attend a party, but he wanted to go anyway. He ended up making out with some random person and of course, someone couldn’t wait to tell everyone the news.
So a call was made that night and OBE was told that they never wanted to see them again. The adjectives were flying…
Of course, OBE felt bad about the whole situation. He knew he had a lapse of judgment, but didn’t think that one evening of bad behavior should end a good relationship.
So, OBE jumped right in and tried to win them back. But, as we will see OBE did everything wrong.
First of all, he called, he groveled. Rather than apologizing and moving forward, he begged to get back. Of course not a chance was possible and his lovers anger was justifiable.
Then, he compounded the problem by pursuing his lover aggressively in the next few days. He sent more than a hundred texts in 6 days. He called at least 3 times a day including once at 1 am in the morning. He sent flowers to at work. What a jerk! Now the possibly of being labeled a stalker..is growing…
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Then, a week later, completely desperate, he went and sang love songs under her window (NUTS). The neighbors called the police and maybe they did his lover a favor. He is now over the line..
OBE’s first problem was that he didn’t give his partner a chance to breathe. They needed some space to decide whether to go on with the relationship. But OBE would not stop being a emotional draining black hole that sucked the space and life at his one time partner.
When nothing seemed to work, OBE decided on another tack. And started seeing other lovers and flaunting it.
When his lover started dating a new person, OBE did everything possible to disparage the new lover. Trying to compare the new lover as unfavorable . Not a chance..
Unfortunately, by this time, OBE had nuked all of his bridges. His lover had moved on and didn’t want to have anything further to do with OBE. He made himself look totally like a stalker and a little nuts.
The relationship didn’t have to end like this. He may have been. But, because OBE acted like an oaf ,stalker and out of Balance emotional Black hole of life, he lost the ability to win back the love.. If you are dumped don’t compound matters by being a OBE.
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Chow,
jergeez
